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a story about eggs

pakir singh and sharon pakir

My Pa and I both love eggs. I don’t quite know how to explain it, but eggs are the perfect food – they can morph effortlessly into a multitude of textures and tastes. An egg can be the perfect snack, or a couple with some accompaniments, a filling meal. We love them curried Punjabi style, with onions, in a souffle all light and airy, creamily scrambled, half boiled Singapore style, fried with a bit of soy sauce, sunny side up and runny, sunny side up and crispy on the edges, deep fried, , sliced, poached with smoked salmon and hollandaise… Any way, really. Eggs are always welcome in our world.

When I was a kid, Pa would wake me up on a Saturday or Sunday morning. We’d cycle or he would drive down to the local coffeeshop and order some Roti Prata for the whole family. Whilst waiting for it to be cooked, he would order us a hot Milo, and some half boiled eggs. We’d sit there eating our breakfast together, my legs swinging under the chair, me marvelling at how fast my Pa could drink the world’s hottest Milo and slurp down his eggs. When we were finished, we would bring the Roti Prata back home for the rest of the family and all sit down together for a noisy, chatty meal.

The perfection of having that breakfast hour with my Pa before the rest of the family did every few Sundays has stuck with me till adulthood, and now I’m happy that S and I recreate that tradition every Saturday before I go to teach.

hard boiled egg for a healthy snack

If you follow me on Twitter or Facebook, you’d know that my Pa is in Melbourne visiting me for a month. It’s been a nice 2 weeks so far, with lots of swimming, time together and activities.

The other day, he turned to me in the afternoon, more bright-eyed and chirpy than usual and with a huge smile on his face.

“Girl,” he whispered, “how about some eggs?”

Still grinning widely, he made a motion with his hands, of dipping a hard boiled egg in salt, and he didn’t even have to tell me, I knew exactly what he was craving. And suddenly, because my Pa said it, so was I.

pakir singh and sharon pakir

moments giggling with Pa

I whipped up some hard boiled eggs pronto and we sat on the swing in the garden for a gorgeous half hour, dipping them in salt and taking huge bites whilst holding hands and enjoying this beautiful spring weather. And all of a sudden I was 12 again, sitting with my Pa and enjoying a precious sunny hour over some eggs.

See, eggs are good. That’s why they call them good eggs.

super clever food serving dish

SERVING GADGET FOR DINNER PARTIES

S and I LOVE to entertain, and there’s nothing I like better than cooking up a feast of multiple dishes for a whole bunch of people. Watching people feed hungrily on things you’ve spent the day whipping up seems like such a great way to spend an evening to me.

When we moved, we bought a square dining table. Great for dinner party conversations and very good for the kind of many-plates-of-shared-food banquet I tend towards. Not so great for when you want a second helping from a serving bowl all the way across the table.

The last time I was in Singapore, I saw these brilliant things.

SERVING GADGET FOR DINNER PARTIESBasically they’re extremely large (about a metre across) rotating lazy susans with dish serving bowls BUILT RIGHT IN. All you do is fill the serving sections with food, and plonk the entire thing in the middle of your table. And then rotate merrily between your guests. No standing up and pretending you want to offer everyone else food when all you really want to do is start stuffing your face. No awkward “pass the plate” moments. And definitely no more elbowing someone accidentally in a bid to reach eagerly for the sweet potato mash.

My heart stopped, and I would have just bought one on the spot if not for the slightly hideous designs they had and the inability to cart them to Australia.

My question to you – have you seen these anywhere here, and do they come in prettier designs? I NEED to know!

easiest bolognese ever

I do love cooking, but lately I’ve been trying to simplify all the meals we make at home because I simply don’t really have energy for fussy, elaborate meals. Roasts have been my friends, and slow cooked meals make for wonderful easy-going activities on my back. A while back, I learnt that you can cook hamburger patties from frozen, without thawing, and people, that changed my burger eating habits profoundly (ie, they’re on our menu more often). Since then, I’ve been searching for other ways to simplify the cooking process and skipping steps, without compromising on quality or resorting to bottled sauces.

Last week, I managed to work out the what has got to be the easiest way of cooking bolognese sauce, ever. Now, I’m not italian, and am not pretending to be – so I’m not claiming this to be the most authentic bolognese there is out there. Plus, I like to shove lots of vegetables into any sauce-y food I make to up the nutrition factor. When I make bolognese, I like to slow cook it for hours so all the flavours meld, and the richness of tomatos really come through. All the waiting over the stove, stirring, and carrying a heavy pot though, aren’t great for my back. Here’s how my little experiment to make bolognese easy went.

 

I started with a heavy based roasting pan, and chucked the minced meat in it. I kinda thawed it out a little in the microwave, but they were still pretty hard. I figured for the purposes of the experiment, I was going to try and be as dodgy as possible. I used 2 parts beef mince, 1 part pork mince.

mince meat

hunka meat anyone?

Then I emptied 4 tins of tomatos over it all. I don’t get too fussy with measurements when I cook, which explains why I’m a terrible baker but an awesome main-meal person. Along with the tomatos, I drizzled in about 4 or 5 tablespoons of olive oil.

tinned tomatos over bolognese

 

Then, I added a profuse amount of mixed herbs (if I have fresh I use it, if I don’t it’s fine too), lots of garlic, salt, pepper, and any secret ingredients you usually put in your sauce (please leave it in the comments). If I’d had a red wine bottle open, I would’ve splashed it all in as well.

making bolognese

 

Then I put it in the oven, which had been preheating at 120 degrees celsius. I wanted to give the meat a chance to thaw AND cook, and anything higher I think would’ve burnt it.

Whilst I sat back and prayed for success, I went and massacred Sonia in our Words with Friends game.

words with friends 86 points

nyahahahahaha.

 

About 40 minutes later, this is what it looked like, and it smelt pretty promising!

bolognese in oven

 

You can see that some of the meat hasn’t cooked through, but it was all soft enough for me to give it a good stir and separate the chunkier bits into little itty bitty melt in your mouth bits. Yay!

I chucked it back in the oven for another half hour, then took it out (because I got impatient!) and added the vegetables that I like to hide in our sauces. S and I would never get enough vegetables if we didn’t do this!

hiding vegetables in bolognese pasta sauce

I added in mushrooms, frozen spinach, and about half a jar of tomato paste. Usually if I have carrots on hand, I’ll grate a few of those in too – you don’t even taste it. Sometimes, I chop half a pumpkin up into little cubes and throw it in as well – I love the taste of it contrasting with the tangy tomato sauce! I gave everything a good stir, and then whacked it back in the oven. Another 30 minutes later, this is what it looked like:

bolognese slow cooked

 

Starting to look really yummy! At this stage, I had to go to the studio and teach, so I left the oven on about 115 degrees, and left the house.

3 hours of slow simmering in the oven later (with no touching or interference from me), we had sumptious, deep tasting, heart warming bolognese sauce.

bolognese sauce cooked in oven

TA-DA!

 

You’ll have to excuse the crappy photos – I wasn’t really expecting this to turn out as good as it did so just let my iphone do the work. Mental note – must keep DSLR charged up and ready to perform at my every cooking whim!

 

SO, the verdict? IT. WAS. AWESOME. It hardly needed any work or supervision, and I managed to get rid of many steps like thawing the meat, browning it, and stirring over the stove. I know there’s the case for browning the meat to improve its final flavour by caramelizing it etc, but to tell the truth when cooking something down for 5 hours, I don’t think it makes a huge difference.

This is going to be the way I make bolognese whenever I’m time or energy short from now onwards – S couldn’t taste any difference between this batch and the way I usually make it (and he’s pretty discerning – err – fussy)! I could shove it in the oven in the morning and have a hot meal at night! You cannot imagine how excited I am about finding out this totally works – between the time savings, and not compromising on quality or nutrition, it is mighty pleasing.

 

quick recipe: vegematables

So earlier in the week, I uploaded on Instagr.am, one of my favourite quick meal accompaniments to cook, ever.

asparagus & mushroom stirfry

asparagus & mushroom stirfry

 

And then within a day, a few people messaged me asking me to share the recipe. And because I’m nice like that, watch me comply. COMPLIANCE, people, not usually my strongest forte, but here we go!

So this is how it goes down in our household. Most weeks on our weekly supermarket run, S and I pick up a coupla bunches of asparagus and a large container of pre-sliced mushrooms, because this is one of our staple recipes.

And we buy the pre-sliced a.k.a “how lazy can you be” mushrooms because it really does save us a few minutes, and having a large container of this convenient yummy goodness in the fridge means we can throw a handful of sliced mushrooms into almost anything we make, from sandwiches to stirfries, and pretend we’re being all healthy. Yup, judge our lazy habits if you want, but this is one we ain’t getting rid of!

Cooking this dish takes 10 minutes from the moment I decide I want to cook it, which is just speedy heaven. So here’s how to make it:

First, I take the asparagus out of the fridge, and chop it up into 1 inch or so lengths. CHOP CHOP CHOP, and you’re done. 30 seconds.

sliced asparagus

 

(Recipe instructions usually tell you to snap the woody bottom section of each asparagus stalk off one by one but I find a good 1.5 inch chop off the bottom of a bunch works pretty well to get rid of woodiness. Yay for speed!)

Then, I run the asparagus under some water for a rinse and let it dry in a colander, whilst I take the mushrooms out of their container home. (30 seconds)

veges

Usually whilst all this is going on, my wonderful wok is heating up patiently on the stove.

Once it’s hot, I put a little swirl of oil (peanut, vegetable or olive) in the pan, and wait a few seconds for that to get hot as well. Also, a shake of sesame oil for fragrance and flavour. (30 seconds)

At this stage, sometimes I add in a little garlic or ginger (if I don’t have it on hand, I don’t bother). If I have, I let it get brown. (1 minute)

Then I throw the asparagus in. I give everything a good stir, then about 30 seconds or so in, I throw all the mushrooms in. At this stage, I always:

  • Grind rock salt and pepper over it all, liberally
  • Add a dash of white wine/beer/stock/lemon juice for a little liquid.

(1 minute)

asparagus mushroom stirfry

letting it cook a little.

I let the mushrooms sweat a bit, which only takes a minute at most. Whilst doing that, I add the following optional items, depending on my mood, what liquid I’ve added, and what we’re pairing the vegetables with:

  • a dash of light soy sauce or
  • a teaspoon of miso or
  • a dash of white vinegar or
  • a dash of fish sauce or
  • sometimes a combination of the above

Sometimes just the salt and pepper is enough (especially if pairing with a steak or roast). How do I know whether it’ll be good? Well, usually I can smell if it is going to be something I want to eat. When I was just starting to learn to cook though, I used to combine the liquids in a cup first and adjust to taste BEFORE adding it to the stirfry. You may want to try this method first. All up you probably only want about 1/3 cup of liquid in there. You don’t want it drowning, just have a bit of slip in the wok.

(1 minute – 2 minutes depending on amount of vegetables)

Either way, in about 3 minutes flat and a lot of vigorous stirring with your spatula, the dish is done. The asparagus will be BRIGHT green, you don’t want it to go too much past that and the mushrooms will be just soft but still firm.

And then, you serve it up next to your main meal!

easy stir fry

 

This dish is so super easy, and so yummy, that we do make it on average at least once a fortnight, if not weekly. S wasn’t even an asparagus lover until he tried this, and it’s always a great fresh tasting addition to any main meal. We also find it keeps well in the fridge, and re-heated in the microwave, makes a fine accompaniment to my secret shame quick meal of instant noodles (and renders it kind of healthy, even!) so we often have a bowl of this in our fridge.

It’s also super versatile – amounts of each vegetable doesn’t matter, and truly, you can use whatever seasonings you like as long as you keep it light (so the beautiful fresh tastes of the asparagus come through).

Do you have a super quick, super easy fool-proof recipe that’s a staple in your arsenal? I’d love for you to share it with me! :)

 

 

5 happy things

1. Wearing a piece of history

These earrings, my mummy wore when she was my age. Years later, they are just as on point fashion-wise, but more importantly, go with most things, are light and dangly, and make me feel incredibly close to her whenever I’ve got them on.

vintage earrings

Every time I pick these earrings for an outfit, it’s like a thread connects us over the oceans and through time, and since my mum is the woman I look up most to in life, it’s a wondrous feeling.

2. Fresh flowers from my garden

Yup, a happy 10 minutes spent sitting on my front garden’s brick steps, basking in the sun and gently clipping an array of pink rose buds to line my window sill with. As the days have gone by, they’ve bloomed and created a vibrant splash of colour in my kitchen.

fresh pink rosebuds

shot glasses = bud vases!

I’d been looking around for some bud vases but haven’t found any that I like in stores. Then I found some little-used shot glasses in our bar, and repurposed them instead! Tiny glasses of delight, without the alcohol content!

3. New shoes

It’s no secret that I’m slightly shoe-obsessed, and my latest pair is a strong reminder for me to get better soon, because my high heels are missing me badly. Or I’m missing them. NAH, I’m sure it’s them missing me.

nine west green suede wedge heel shoes

This pair is particularly comfortable and I can already wear them for short periods, the stacked wedge heel makes them super stable, and I love the deep rich greeeeeeeen. Plus, you can’t go wrong with suede. Unless it rains. BEGONE EVIL RAIN GODS!

4. Being cooked for by my love

I’ve now lived away from home for 10 years, and none of my family live here. To have a home-cooked meal prepared for me is the ultimate luxury, better yet, to receive a home-cooked meal in my own home is downright incredible. As this household’s primary cook, imagine my surprise when S offered to make me dinner – and have it turn out amazingly delicious!

sauteing bacon & mushroom

the makings of a creamy pasta...

My auntie has a theory about “cooking from love” – which is that food tastes ultimately better when it is prepared for someone from the heart, and I truly believe it. As I lolled about on the couch being useless, S bustled around the kitchen whipping up the lightest, most delectable creamy pasta I’d had. I felt so adored as he served it up to me, and the smile on his face when he saw I’d finished my entire bowl (very rare) was lovely too.

5. Driving around with S

I love being a passenger in S’s car – we talk a lot, share anecdotes, and often have our best conversations in the car.

hand holding in car

I love that we drive around, my hand in his, sharing deeply whilst traveling to our next destination, the perfect metaphor for our life together. It’s perfection.

Do you have a list of 5 happy things that make you joyous in a simple way? What are they?

a special day for a special man

Today is the birthday of my very special man. It’s a day when I get to write him soppy cards, spoil him with a few presents, cook whatever he likes, and generally be good to him. The incredible thing about S is that he spends every day of the year spoiling me, and being generally wonderful, and he almost doesn’t know what to do when he’s the recipient of the niceties! It’s been wonderful watching him today, excited and happy, and being showered with love and presents from his family.

birthday boy!

We had his family over for dinner, and I spent the day cooking one of his favourite meals – slow cooked roast lamb (6 hours in the oven, baby!). This simple thing had this man raving about it for 2 hours after the meal – how could you NOT love that? The house was filled with chatter of a happy family, the smells of good food, and afterward, the satisfied silence of full-bellied lolling about in the loungeroom. It was perfection, and I hope, wondrous for the birthday boy.

slow roasted lamb

To end off what has been a lovely evening, S and I are doing what we love best – sitting on the couch with each other and savouring the last few moments of the day. And what did I get him? Well a few odds and ends he needed in his clothing repertoire, an apt cologne by D&G called “a perfect gentleman” (apt, right?!) annnnnd a few vouchers. Like 4 vouchers for bonafide dance lessons from me (I’ve been neglecting him!), a voucher for a long walk around our new neighbourhood, a voucher for spending the rest of his life with me, and oh yes, most importantly, a voucher for him to be allowed to give me a massage. I am nothing, if not generous, people.

Stephen, if you’re reading this – I love you. Happy birthday, darling, and here’s to many more birthdays I can celebrate with you. Don’t ever forget how incredible you are – today, on your birthday – and every other day.

birthday boy

PS. You’re really handsome. I mean, look at that smile on my guy. REALLY HANDSOME. *swoon*

of herbs and spice

I know this whole green thumb thing isn’t going to last that long – I’m sure it’s a strange fluke or that nature is simply being kind to me in my betrodden state. Whatever it is, I’m not only going to keep taking advantage of it, but also going to rub it in your face any time I have any kind of success with the dastardly business. I’ll take the little victories. Even if they have nothing to do with me.

I’m really enjoying the process of learning, as I always do, and mostly, I’m enjoying the directatorship sense of glee when I note that my actions directly impact the plants. *rubs hands together*. It’s also pretty magical when plants go from boring green things to flowering, budding, sprouting and growing, sometimes overnight!

My garden herb pots are flourishing, and the other night I made a thai curry with its offerings (and some store-bought ingredients like chicken and vegetables!)

herbs from garden

basil, jalapeno chilli, spring onions

The chilli was surprisingly potent – I like spicy as much as the next Asian, but man, this one little bugger in a big pot of curry and it was still a little full of mayhem. The curry turned out good though, if not one of the best times I’ve made it – proof is in a man eating over 2 dinners, what was measured out for 4. I give the fresh herbs credit. Kind of. I think he’s getting a little weary of me taking herb cuttings, then SHOVING them under his nose and DEMANDING he declares how wonderful it is that I have fresh! garden! herbs! to cook with!

All said, it’s very gratifying cooking S a good meal – he is at once heartily pleased and adorably grateful. He lauds its praises and then makes me feel like a domestic goddess (which I am far from). A while later, I can expect him to ask me to cook it again, complete with gratifying begging and joyful fist pumps when I agree. Sometimes love is blind, but in this case, love is glaringly obvious and wonderful.

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