Archive for April 2011

learning to love the footy

So what I’m about to say may be a bit blasphemous to a LOT of Australians.

I’ve lived here for 11 years now, and up to a year ago, had never been to the footy.

Australian Rules Football, for those of you not in this land down under, is a hugely popular game here, particularly in Melbourne. It’s a way of life, a culture, and sport that grips the entire nation. Most people, even if they don’t follow the footy avidly during its season, at least have a club that they barrack for.

I had no interest in any of it, whatsoever.

I don’t love sport generally, and haven’t ever watched a whole lot of it on TV or live. Footy, to the uneducated eye, can seem like a messy game (especially when you see it on tv, and don’t even know the first rule about it).

However, since being with S, I have unwittingly been dragged into the footy culture. S is a HUGE sports head, and is passionate about following, it seems, almost every sport around the world. Footy is one of them. At the beginning, I was perfectly happy to let him enjoy this passion undisturbed and leaving me to “more time for ME stuff!”

Over time though, he wore me down about coming to a game, citing my love for dance and physical form as the one thing that would make me appreciate it. So finally, I acquiesced. After all, I had nothing to lose – I’d have a handsome man next to me and a whole swarm of handsome men on the field to watch. WIN-WIN.

australian rules football

hello, boys.

It is testament to S’ amazing ability to make anyone excited about even the most mundane topics, and his absolute talent for explaining sports so clearly, that I was not only able to follow the game, but even grew to appreciate and love it. Since then, he’s taken me to a few more games, and I gotta tell you, I’m slowly starting to enjoy it, even getting a bit emotionally involved in the games I’m watching.

I haven’t hit the moment where I’ve chosen “my team” yet though. S has a theory that I should, as a good girlfriend, simply follow HIS club, but I like to taunt him by telling him I’d like to choose Essendon because they have lots of cute men on their team.

On Sunday, we took my daddy to HIS first footy game, and he adored it, thanks again to S’ passion and great explanations.

pa and steve at the footy game

It was a fabulous experience, where Dad got super into the game, even cheering for the team we’d picked to support!

sharon pakir and father at the footy

half time chatter

sharon pakir and stephen krygger

me and my honey

It was a ripper of a game, with plenty of heart-stopping moments and a super close result. Our team barely made it, but we won, and there was genuine jubilance. There’s something about sport that makes you truly believe you were in the game with the players, particularly with 30,000 other screaming fans in the stadium with you.

genuine moment of elation!

It was a wonderful afternoon, and a super fun one at that. Yup, the footy is definitely growing on me.

 

easter noice-ness

Did you all have a nice Easter?

I’d never celebrated Easter before so it was particularly wonderful to have Easter lunch with S’s family, and also my dad who’s here visiting from Singapore.

Evelyn (S’s mum) put on a lavish spread, with 2 legs of lamb that fell off the bone, a slew of roast vegetables, and her absolutely famous cheesecake.

cheesecake time!

"make sure you make them equal slices!!"

Ok, so it’s not famous, but it seriously should be.

It was truly a lovely day, with lots of lounging about, plenty of laughter, and the kind of warmth only really great family days can bring.

kids watching some telly

kids lounging around

krygger family

the boys took too long to pose, so Evelyn posed instead!

krygger men

3 generations of fine Krygger men!

Meanwhile, the womenfolk had fun too, giggling, sharing the latest goss, and bustling about.

I love this shot of S’s mum and I, think it’s the best one we’ve got. She’s just a gorgeous, warm and loving mum figure and I’m so lucky to have been as welcomed by her as I have into her family. This photo I think really reflects how much affection we have for each other!

sharon pakir and evelyn krygger

aww.

And then don’t forget whilst being able to spend Easter with my favourite man and his family,

stephen krygger

OH MY GOD sorry, he's so handsome I had to insert this shot.

SORRY, I interrupted myself with his hotness.

But back to the sentence – …I ALSO got to spend Easter with my first ever favourite man, and definitely the most loved man in my life.

sharon pakir and pakir singh

It was truly a double happiness moment!

Did you have a nice Easter too? How do you celebrate it?

proud parents

ok, hold up, relax. This isn’t what you think. Yesterday, S and I became the proud parents of…

an eggplant.

Yes, the very first eggplant we have harvested off our tree and grown from flower! Whoo hoo!

Back story: 3 months ago, when we were at the height of our gardening frenzy, I sighted this eggplant tree at Direct Plants, my favourite nursery. Chantal, the owner, assured me that they were easy to grow and would bear wonderful deep purple orbs of goodness.

purtill eggplant tree info sheet

this was the tree's info card

Me, being a total garden newbie, decided WHY NOT, after all, I like eggplants, and I like useful plants even more. I also knew I had the perfect spot for it by the side of the house where S would NEVER notice it. Why was this important? Well, when we started clearing the jungle that was our garden for proper planting, I started getting superbly excited about veggie patches and growing my own fruit, but S disallowed it, citing veggie patches as ugly, and homegrown veggies and fruit as over-rated.

Of course, ME being ME, this made me crave the growing of the edibles EVEN MORE, after all when you tell me specifically NOT to do something, I want it even more. Ask my parents – my dad begged me for years not to take up that dancing rubbish even as a hobby, and now I own a dance school! HAHAHAHA!

So I started planting little pots of herbs – basil, coriander, thyme, and spring onions. And then gradually the pot collection in the sunny spot of the yard started growing, with tomatoes and a chilli plant, then a lemon and lime tree.

my herb pots

my sekrit herb and tomato section!

And he didn’t even notice at ALL except to note I was giving some weird EXTRA care to certain parts of the garden. When I first handed him a freshly plucked tomato, he was INCREDULOUS that I had managed to do this all right in front of him. Sometimes I get frustrated that S doesn’t notice new haircuts or dramatic changes in my look but this was one time I ADORED his lack of observation skills.

Slowly I added the eggplant tree, even successfully getting him to PLANT it for me in the ground without him realising its err, EDIBLE attributes! Ahh, the joy of feminine wiles!

Fast forward a couple of months and yesterday I harvested, exceedingly happily, our first eggplant from the tree, and it is huge, glossy deep purple, and almost perfect.

first eggplant tree harvest

look at it! aww shucks, I feel all glowing and proud.

For size reference, here it is next to our TV remote controls!

eggplant

huge!

When S saw my facebook post about our eggplant, he proclaimed himself its proud father – so I guess that little quip has stuck, and I now can tell you all on the interwebz that we are proud parents, to our eggplant.

BOOYA, and hooray for novice gardeners!!!

(and yes, I have some idea of how annoying we will be as parents of young kids because I’m shoving our EGGPLANT news in your face. don’t say I didn’t warn you!)

 

pj partay

My daddy and I in our pyjamas, just chillin’. (Ok actually, he was hovering over me in the kitchen as I chopped his next day’s carrot sticks and munching on them surreptitiously.)

me and pa

aww.

visit from the royal family

Well, almost. This last week, my parents visited us in Melbourne. Mum came for a whirlwind 4 days, and my, what a whirlwind it was! I have written about my mum before, and she is just  the most amazing, energetic, exuberant and vibrant woman I know (really, and truly, this comes verified from many other sources)! Whilst she was here, we ran around crazily cramming superhuman amounts of errand running, shopping, dining, giggling and catching up in each day to maximise her stay.

This is the first time Mum and Pa have seen our forever home since we moved in barely 6 months ago now (it feels like it’s been a year, at least!) and before they arrived, we cleaned and modeled the house in excitement, as though staging it for a sale viewing. Despite being a full grown adult, my parents are still a huge influence in my life, and I wanted them to see for themselves how happy me and S are, and for them to be proud of our new home and life together.

our house is a very very very fine house (sharon pakir)

our house is a very very very fine house!

I was pleased when Mum said she loved how beautiful it was, pleased that my Dad thought it has a beautiful interior and ultra beaming with joy when they commented on how well we had done the decor. My parents are shockingly stylish and brought us up in beautiful homes, and it was important to me that they liked our home too!

We also managed to have a truly lovely dinner at home for S’s family as well as mine – so they could all meet. Happily, everyone got along like a house on fire and it made for a wonderfully warm evening filled with laughter and merry story-telling.

pakir and krygger family dinner

pakir-krygger dinner!

krygger boys

the handsome Krygger boys

Mum spoiled me CONSIDERABLY in the short time she was here – she needed to buy clothes and an array of things, and rather wonderfully, bought me some gorgeous pieces too (since I’ve been oh so good about shopping lately due to my self imposed, but not very well kept spending ban).

She also decided it was her mission to help us make our house more of a home, with a few well-placed purchases that we were lacking. Like insisting on replacing our tea towels, stocking up our pantry and fridge with the biggest supermarket shop I have ever witnessed,  and buying us a couple of lamps like this incredible gorgeous one below:

gorgeous lamp sharon pakir chinois inspired
mmmm… lamp love.
giggly fun with pakir family

giggly fun in my house! (making fun of my dad is FUN!)

My dad is staying on for a total of 3 weeks, whilst I help him with lots of rehab and feed him like a king, as he so deserves. Last night I even made a gourmet restaurant style meal of fresh shucked oysters, herbed salmon, black pepper crusted seared tuna, kumara mash, grilled zucchini, and prawns cooked in butter and wine. He ate so much I thought he was going to explode! YAYY FOR EXPLODING DADS! :)

I’ve so far made him tell me that I’m his favourite daughter only 17 times in a week (ha to Sheila!), which I think is pretty restrained of me. We have had lots of laughter and it’s just been lovely to spend such oodles of quality time with him one-on-one, something I’ve missed in the last 3-4 years that he hasn’t travelled here.

So whilst it’s been a tiring, whirlwind week so far (and 2 more to go!) – it’s been just filled with so much warmth and love that it’s hard to think of it as “tiring”, more like “an adventure”, really. And as with all adventures, it’s fun, exciting and even a little bit tingly with family time.

melbourne latin festival

Last weekend was the Melbourne Latin Festival, and it was just a wonderful, wonderful weekend. Impressively organised, impeccably run, and most of all, OODLES of fun by all that attended. My school always makes an appearance, and this year was no exception! Firstly, I got to take part in some public relations fun leading up to the event!

I taught the dance class at the festival’s launch party at the gorgeous Tuscan Bar in Bourke St, and also got to partake in a really fun photo shoot:

photoshoot for melbourne latin festival for the northcote leader featuring Sharon Pakir and Alex Bryan

photoshoot for the local paper with Alex Bryan

 

Plus, I was on National TV! Only for a brief moment! But STILL! We were on the 7pm Project (Channel 10)!

sharon pakir on channel 10's 7pm project for melbourne latin festival with spin city dance

dancing for Channel 10's 7pm Project

That was just a whole lot of fun, particularly because my whole team got to get decked out in their finest costumes and dazzle the pants off everyone!! Here’s the link to the video of us doing our thang, and hopefully razzle-dazzling the nation.

Look at my team, they are just stunners, the Spin City crew.

Spin City Dance filming for Channel Ten 7pm project (Sharon Pakir, Elysia Baker, Christie Mansfield, Sonia Starosta, Christian Szilagyi)

My gorgeous team!

During the festival itself, we represented with 4 performances by my student and pro teams, and I also taught a couple of workshops (on2 Mambo and Cha Cha).

sharon pakir and spin city crew getting ready for performance at melbourne latin festival

getting performance ready!

 

The atmosphere in the dressing rooms is always electric at these events – 100 performers in a single cramped room, sharing mirror space and adrenaline running through their veins with pre-performance jitters!

backstage at melbourne latin festival

great atmosphere backstage

 

In case you were wondering, we really DO get primped and sparkly from head to toe. Uh huh, TOE.

sparkly latin dance shoes

even our shoes get the bling on!

 

This was the ready to get on stage team! My pro team (plus James, who kindly jumped into our routine at late notice!!) How gorgeous are they – I’m so lucky to have them represent me!

spin city dance pro team at melbourne latin festival

noice, boys.

 

Each night, after a couple of hours of jaw dropping performances featuring sizzling style, we then adjourned to a social dancing room with live bands, electric atmosphere, lots of latin flavour, and some amazing dancing!

cuban performance at melbourne latin festival

cuban percussion

 

Want to see what it was like? The very talented Jean-Luc made a wonderful video that in just 4 minutes, accurately captures the fun, the wonder, and the sheer delight that was the festival. You can view it here.

(PS, I feature in part of it, look out for my bright coral top and slicked back hair!)

And, if you’re upset for missing out, you can always remember to book in for next year (it’s an annual event) – it’s SO well worth it and it’s a real feather in our cap to have an incredible event like this right here in Melbourne, featuring world class dancers and great entertainment!

What I do adore about my life is that I get to be such an integral part of all these festivals, and really feel every moment and aspect of it. They leave me exhausted (and recently, SO SORE), but oh my, how lucky am I, to be able to do what I love and experience these amazing weekends at least 8-10 times a year, and in different states and countries.

 

*happy sighs*

have thy tools ready.

Even though S and I moved into this house 5 months ago, there are still, embarrassingly, whole areas (which is my euphemism for “rooms”), that are cluttered and not really well put away. Whilst we had unpacked our thousands of boxes within the first week of moving in, we didn’t always unpack them well, telling ourselves we would slowly work through the house and sort it all out.

Famous last words.

Somehow, life just got the better of us – Christmas and New Years wiped us out, then there was the Sydney Salsa Congress in January, then my trip to Singapore. There’s been plenty of dance events to keep us busy, as well as all the work we’ve been doing outdoors with every spare weekend moment we get. Then finally, there’s the bit where I’m a horrendous homemaker and truly bad at understanding how a house is meant to run.

Ok fine, the above are all excuses. Except the last bit – that is all true.

Last weekend, I finally got some time to do some tidying of some problem areas. Problem area number 1: tools. S and I had lots of tools between us, but we weren’t quite sure of WHAT we had, and no system to storing them. For the last few months, our tools had been scattered all around the laundry counters, stashed in a couple of containers, and lingering in odd places around the deck (where we’d used them). I decided to do a bit of an audit on what we had, and oh my…

People.

For 2 lovely humans who have previously had little to no experience in DIY, man, we had a lotta tools.

 

I mean, does anybody really need 3 hammers, 3 pairs of pliers, 4 measuring tapes, and a thousand spanners? Oh and don’t even get me started on the screwdrivers – that collection above is IN ADDITION to the brief-case sized black case enclosed Stanley set (I think it’s what is known as a COMPENDIUM) that Stephen has. Or the variety and range of drill bits we own (when both of us learnt to use a drill for the first time less than a fortnight ago).

Plus, we had an assortment of nails, screws, bolts and all kinds of little metal whizoos – it was like we had become a family of carpenters overnight. Half the things in there, we didn’t even know what to do with.

I was in a “sorting” mood, so I divided everything up into categories, then put them all neatly away:

Left - screws, wires, random fastening objects. Middle - pliers, measuring items, spanners. Right - hammers, tupperware with screwdrivers, and large tools.

And then I got started on the tidy up of the laundry room, which was a bit of a mammoth task that left me lying in bed and moaning and groaning for hours after. But that’s for another post. Really, I kid you not, that laundry room was pretty chaotic.

With the tools though, is anyone else like this? Are we the only household with an array of tools so magnificent we could host DIY workshops? Re-assure me here, and let me know we’re not the only crazies who seem to have a collecting hobby we didn’t know about! Or should we be getting rid of some of it?

Ps, when I had laid all the tools out on the carpet, I made S come and look at the ridiculous scale of it. He didn’t think it was ridiculous at all. His eyes lit up with pride, and he gave me the biggest grin, and declared, “IT’S AWESOME ISN’T IT!” – I think I see where the problem lies…

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